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Less than a year earlier, my fianc茅 and I had bought a house in Pittsburgh, had a great community of family and friends, and were busy planning our wedding. All that changed when a dream-job opportunity unexpectedly arose in Orlando for my new husband. A little over three months later, we were newlyweds in a new town, where my husband left for work each day while I鈥ell, mostly, I cried. A lot.

I hated the weather, the bugs, the smells; my dog died; I was severely allergic to the mold hidden behind the walls of our rental. It was not exactly the honeymoon phase I鈥檇 expected.

After months of trying and failing to find a job, a club, a team, anywhere I might belong, I began searching for places to volunteer. A Google query and a few days later, I found myself sitting at a table in one of those inconspicuous buildings on Parramore Avenue, chatting away with Shanta Barton-Stubbs like we were old friends. I learned how she founded New Image when she was just 21, and for the past 10 years had been supporting the children of Parramore year-round through after-school and summer programs.

It wasn鈥檛 long before I felt like I鈥檇 finally found my own little version of 鈥楥heers鈥� 鈥� that place where everyone knows your name 鈥� I finally felt like I was home.

While her journey is no doubt remarkable, what I remember most was hearing her vision, about growth for her organization, but most importantly, for her students. When at last I left that afternoon, I was brimming with ideas on how I could support progress towards that vision. I came back later that week, and again after that, and soon my tiny, lonely world began to grow. It wasn鈥檛 long before I felt like I鈥檇 finally found my own little version of 鈥楥heers鈥� 鈥� that place where everyone knows your name 鈥� I finally felt like I was home.

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That sense of belonging is what Shanta has given hundreds of children (and at least one 30-something) who have walked through the doors of New Image over the past 16 years. I am honored to a have been a part of that legacy for the past six and have earned a lifelong friend and extended family in the process. Even though I now work full-time at 麻豆原创, I stay connected with my students and the many incredible people who make New Image such a special place.

This is probably a good time to pause and make clear that I do not look like most of my New Image family. I am white, and the majority of our families from New Image are Black. Perhaps it is the starkness of that difference that has made it a topic of natural conversation, or perhaps it is just human nature to be curious. In any case, we鈥檝e never shied away from difficult, painful, and sometimes funny conversations about race.

These discussions have taken on more gravity in recent months, as our youths are repeatedly subjected to the trauma of watching people who look just like them being shot and killed with impunity. To put it bluntly, they are aware that there is active debate over whether their lives matter.

Right now, I believe New Image Youth Center is more important than ever. When they step inside those doors, our kids are safe. They are free to be the silly, kind, brilliant, loving children we know them to be 鈥� even if to the rest of the world some look like grown men. They are free to be unapologetically Black and to be in a space that celebrates them unequivocally. At New Image, there is no doubt that they matter.

But small nonprofits like New Image are subject to the same economic and social forces as the rest of the country, much of which is reeling from the global pandemic. Rents are rising, donations are falling, and there is a fear that those doors that have welcomed so many might not stay open indefinitely. That huge source of security and stability for the children of Parramore could be lost.

To those reading this, I invite you to learn more about a little organization with a big impact and become part of the team dedicated to keeping this safe haven thriving. It is easy to find them on their or .

But New Image likes to do things with a personal touch. Feel free to contact me if you want to know more.

You鈥檒l be welcomed to the family in person when you arrive鈥ust look for those doors on Parramore Avenue.

Katie Philp is the research and evaluation manager for the Parramore Education and Innovation District, a project of 麻豆原创鈥檚 Center for Higher Education Innovation. She can be reached at Katherine.Philp@ucf.edu.

The聽麻豆原创 Forum聽is a weekly series of opinion columns from faculty, staff and students who serve on a panel for a year. A new column is posted each Wednesday on 麻豆原创 Today and then broadcast on W麻豆原创-FM (89.9) between 7:50 and 8 a.m. Sunday. Opinions expressed are those of the columnists, and are not necessarily shared by the 麻豆原创.

鈥淏e the change you wish to see in the world.鈥�

Frequently attributed to Mahatma Gandhi, there are over the true origins of this quote. Regardless, as inspirational sound bites go, this one has some teeth. Short and succinct, it imparts a strong message of personal agency in just a few syllables. This one line conveys determination, hard work, optimism, and maybe a little bit of pluck.

In the past decade, we鈥檝e witnessed teens and young adults using social media platforms to communicate and make their voices heard louder and faster than ever before.

Youth activism is not new, but in the , we鈥檝e witnessed teens and young adults using social media platforms to communicate and make their voices heard louder and faster than ever before. While we were busy fighting the 鈥極k, Boomer鈥� war, younger generations grew tired and got to work. They have seen our inspirational posters and they have raised us a few million Tweets. Today鈥檚 teens are doing everything we鈥檝e encouraged them to do and more; so why are we suddenly uneasy with their passion, their drive and their anger? Why do I hear calls to 鈥渓et them be kids” or worse, to just 鈥済o to a good old-fashioned movie鈥�?

Some of this comes from a misguided sense of protection from adults (while some, clearly, does not). Many of us recall a time when being a teen was more carefree, a time when we could readily afford to just 鈥渂e kids.鈥� But that time is gone. Waxing nostalgic won鈥檛 bring it back, nor will forcing modern youth to fit our ideals of yesterday. When we teach current events and encourage critical thinking, we cannot, in the same breath, urge them to put down the internet and go play outside.

Young people today are steadfast in the belief that they should not live in fear of being shot at school, being harassed or harmed for the color of their skin or whom they choose to love, or of a rapidly warming planet on the brink of an irreversible tipping point. So they are taking what we have taught them and they are doing something about it. Today鈥檚 youth have heard us loud and clear 鈥� they are being the change they wish to see.

I do not fear for the Greta Thunbergs, the Emma Gonzalezes, the David Hoggs or the Malala Yousafzais of the world. They have shown us that they are resilient, brave and relentless. However, I do fear that the shouting, name-calling, and outright bullying by those in power targeting high-profile teens could deter other youth from speaking out. Their voices are important in these conversations, when the decisions we make today will most heavily impact them tomorrow. That鈥檚 why it is important for adults to take a stand, to add our support and encouragement to youth who want to get involved with causes that matter to them.

As we enter 2020, let鈥檚 look with fresh eyes at the young people around us and really try to hear them. Let鈥檚 acknowledge their fears, their pain, and the heavy burdens we have allowed them to carry alone. Let鈥檚 finally start to be the change our young people need. Because they aren鈥檛 waiting around any longer for us to catch up.

Katie Philp is the research and evaluation manager for the Parramore Education and Innovation District, a project of 麻豆原创鈥檚 Center for Higher Education Innovation. She can be reached at Katherine.Philp@ucf.edu.

The聽麻豆原创 Forum聽is a weekly series of opinion columns from faculty, staff and students who serve on a panel for a year. A new column is posted each Wednesday on 麻豆原创 Today and then broadcast on W麻豆原创-FM (89.9) between 7:50 and 8 a.m. Sunday. A is available on the radio station鈥檚 website. Opinions expressed are those of the columnists, and are not necessarily shared by the 麻豆原创.